Coaching with Christy: Communicating Importance in Your Relationships

In every relationship, whether with a partner, friend, colleague, or client—feeling seen and valued is essential. Yet, we often forget to express how much someone means to us. When we do, it deepens trust, connection, and emotional safety.

Why It Matters

People thrive when they feel important. It boosts confidence, strengthens bonds, and creates space for honest communication. In coaching, we call this intentional affirmation—a simple but powerful way to nurture relationships.

How to Communicate Importance

1. Be Present

Give your full attention. Eye contact, active listening, and putting away distractions say, “You matter.”

2. Speak It Out

Use affirming words like:

• “I appreciate you.”

• “You’re important to me.”

• “I’m grateful for you.”

3. Follow Through

Reliability shows respect. When you keep your word, you reinforce trust.

4. Celebrate Them

Acknowledge their wins—big or small. It shows you’re paying attention and cheering them on.

5. Ask Deeper Questions

Go beyond “How are you?” Ask what’s lighting them up or weighing them down. It shows you care.

6. Make Time

Even short, intentional moments can strengthen connection. Prioritize quality time.

Final Thought

Don’t wait for a milestone to express someone’s value. A kind word or thoughtful gesture today can shift the energy of a relationship in powerful ways.